...I really think that, you know. I think you're a good friend. You're kind and caring. You want to see your friends safe and sound. You're beating yourself up over this because of what you could have done. What you would have done. What you didn't do.

[This is way too sappy for his tastes. Part of him is a little glad that Rin isn't looking at his face since he knows how awkward and vulnerable he suddenly feels is plastered all over it.]

The part you're missing is that it's okay to fall down. It's okay to fail. Of course, it's only okay if you can come to terms with it and stand up again.